He wants to feel like he is adding to your life in a meaningful way, and you can help him feel this way by soliciting his advice and opinions.
When I get relationship questions from readers I love sharing them with my husband just to get his take and insights.
And with that, here are the top five things guys secretly love and want from you, but will seldom ask for.
No man will ever come right out and tell you he likes it when you compliment him because it’s a weird thing to ask for, and also not very “manly,” if you will.
Men have an overwhelming need to feel useful, to feel like they have something of value to offer.
This is true in all areas of his life and especially so in relationships.
When you tell him what you want in a way that makes him feel good, he feels good about doing it and good about himself because he knows how to make you happy.
One of the greatest feelings to a man in a relationship is feeling like he has a woman in his corner, someone who believes in him no matter what and sees him for the great man he is and the amazing man he could be.
He also feels like a little kid being scolded by mommy for misbehaving.But just because he doesn’t ask, doesn’t mean he doesn’t crave.Men also feel insecure about their physical appearance, and they don’t get nearly as much validation as we do.There is comfort in knowing that you will be there for him even if he fails, especially since failure is the hardest thing for men to deal with.When you support him and believe in him, and it comes from a true and genuine place, he feels on top of the world, like he can do anything.