I do not have sexual needs, as far back as I can recall I never really did. Or, the scenario rather is: I never had a large sex drive, but it was certainly more than it currently is.My wife does have sexual desires and she is longing for sexual activity with me. I just don’t have an interest in being sexual with my wife, although I did at one time.Is it that she does not have sexual desires at all? I too feel a ministry birthing, but I fear that the lack of spontaneity in my marriage can be a problem. She gives me sex, actually after foreplay she gets into it. It becomes a style, a pattern due to years of the same start, during and stop process.
For now though, for the purposes of the particular focus of this blog – do it for your spouse. Or, does she views a man’s desire for his wife as something other than healthy? My wife and i are devote Christians with Three Teenage boys. You see, a couple’s sexual style is just that: a style.
The fact is, married women too experience sexual deprivation.
Whether you are a man or a woman, yearning for sexual intimacy with your spouse is a healthy desire.
Is there something so wrong with “hooking your spouse up” with sexual pleasure even if you are not in the mood? Think of all of the things that you do on a day to day basis for your spouse that you may not feel in the mood to do.
Of course, certainly, ideally my hope for you as a couple is to find your sexual couple style.