The ESTJ’s expertise for getting things done is well known and they bring the same drive and resourcefulness to their personal relationships as well.
Be social Despite their preference for an orderly and structured way of life, ESTJs are highly gregarious people.
Volunteer at a community center or take time out to do a home-building/repairing project together.
Gardening and watching a game are other ways that ESTJs love to relax.
More often than not, they are highly conscientious people and abide by rules as well as conventions.
In fact ESTJs expect their partners, family and friends to live by the same lofty standards they do.